Wednesday, February 28, 2007

Free Tour of Akihabara

As of 7.00 p.m. (Tokyo time) today I have finished writing and submitting all due term papers for the semester – so insya Allah I’ll have more free time after this to blog …


Anyway, talking about free – we got plenty of free stuff last Sunday when hubby took us to join the free Akihabara tour in conjunction with “Yokoso Japan!” campaign. Hubby learned about it from Syah and wanted to join it the previous week, but I was just too tired after one week of attending intensive course (with mid-term paper, presentations and what nots) and the weather was not that great anyway, so we postponed the trip to last Sunday.


It wasn’t the first time we visited Akihabara, of course – after all, it’s only about 30 minutes away from our place by bike. But they did took us to places we have never been before – the Robot kingdom and Tokyo Anime Center. We could not see animation artist at work because we went there on a Sunday, but yeah, we were pretty much satisfied with the two hours tour.


The free stuff? Well, for one, I won a mug in a lucky draw at the stall promoting Vaio/Microsoft Vista in front of Yodobashi Akiba (the largest electrical store in Akihabara). Despite numerous attempts by hubby – he only managed to get lots of post-it notes. Huzaifah got three fancy balloons at the same stall too.

Then, we answered some questionnaires at the Tokyo Anime Center and each of us got a nylon bag each. Hubby of course had no idea what the questionnaires (in Nihongo) was all about – but he filled the form anyway for the bag’s sake.

There were only four of us – Jason from Canada, Joshia, a Polish married to a Japanese who’s been living in Japan for 18 years, hubby and I – in the English language tour, and two free lunch coupons were up for grabs. I had already packed nasi goreng (yes, I know, I almost always prepare nasi goreng as bento everytime we go sightseeing) for lunch, but thought it would be nice to win the coupon since it’s quite rare for us to enjoy dining in a nice restaurant. I even thought that it wouldn’t be too bad even if only either hubby or I won the coupon and the other have to pay. But alhamdulillah, as it happened – we both won the coupons!

So we had a nice free lunch at Tokyo Food Theater 5 + 1 – a nice restaurant with plush chairs, soft lighting and food served in fine china. The original set menu was unsuitable for us though, so we had to request for some adjustments, which the chef had no trouble complying to. I had a Japanese Hana lunch set, comprising rice, yaki zakana, pickles, tofu and miso soup with vegetables. Hubby had an Italian lunch set made of spaghetti in tomato, shrimp and squid sauce, plus salad and bread. Huzaifah had a little bit of both plus lots of orange juice.

A little bit of sightseeing on our own after that and we were back home by Maghrib…

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Gong xi fa cai.. .

I should have posted this a lot earlier - but the truth is, it only hit me that it was CNY a day after CNY (as the lecturer for my winter course offered his wishes for those who celebrate it). Duh!

Anyway, for all who celebrate the lunar new year, have a great, prosperous, fun and healthy year! Gong Xi Fa Cai!

(Still, it also hit me that my baby might not be too pleased to be born in the year of oink oink... alamak, sorry la sayang ye...)

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Something big happened in our family during CNY - my younger brother finally got engaged, alhamdulillah.

Well, I must admit that my parents are a bit choosy when it comes to approving Abang’s choice. He went out with several girls until he met his current fiancĂ©e about 4 or 5 years ago. Sarah is 8 years his junior, is now in her final year of degree, but she has won us all over since the first meeting. She’s our second cousin actually, the daughter of Ayah’s cousin and when Ayah first invited her over to our place, it was to strengthen ties between relatives rather than wooing a potential daughter-in-law. After all, back then we kind of pitied her, being so far away from her family in Kedah, all on her own in for the first time in a big city to get her diploma. But it wasn’t long when we started noticing that Abang would be home early whenever she came for a visit…

Being the sweet, kind, polite, clad-in-tudung-labuh-Muslimah as she is, Mak and Ayah had no trouble at all in approving her to be their prospective daughter-in-law. She gets along well with me too, and she even gets along well with Ummi, our biological mother. The only problem was her family who were rather reluctant to see her marrying my brother. It had nothing to do with my brother actually – he’s after all, quite a good catch, what with doing rather well as a self-entrepreneur (despite never finishing his degree at UUM or KDU or UiTM or MMU – he said he’s just like Bill Gates; he doesn’t really need a degree to prove his worth) and basically a practicing Muslim. The reason for her family’s initial unwillingness was due to old family history - really ancient family history. And for a while my brother seemed to be the victim of sins of the grandparent/father/father’s siblings…

We tried approaching the family a couple of year ago, but sensing the heavy reluctance back then, Mak decided to wait. “Be patient, Allah is with those who are patient. Besides, with passing time, their reluctance might be thinning… If it’s meant to be, insya Allah there’ll be some opening for us some day”

It came as a wonderful surprise when Mak told me over the phone a couple of weeks ago that they would be going to Kedah to propose Sarah. Mak said she’s glad that she could get this done before coming to Tokyo, since we have been waiting for ‘the opening’ for quite some time now. Abang is turning 31 this year and doesn’t seem to be interested in anybody else but Sarah, so my parents had been pretty worried – what if the family wouldn’t give in after all? But as it turned out, Sarah herself had been pretty steadfast in her decision to marry him; stubbornly saying no to all other ‘risik’ proposals, so much so that her mother began to worry about her not marrying anyone at all if they didn’t allow her to be with my brother.

Alhamdulillah they are now happily engaged. The date for the wedding has not been set as yet – but I told Mak to go ahead even if I might not be able to return home for the occasion. Mak told me that Abang said he wouldn’t mind just having the nikah first and the kenduri later, to which I disagreed. It wouldn’t be fair to Sarah, especially since we learned that one of her uncles is trying to persuade her mother to have a two-in-one kenduri for both Sarah and his daughter at their kampong. It’s different had Sarah and Abang been studying/working in the overseas and decided to just have a simple nikah ceremony – that would be quite acceptable. But under their circumstances, I believe Sarah deserves a warm reception, whatever it is that we could afford. (Abang has been planning all along on having his kenduri in a hotel – somewhere fit to invite his business associates and hotshots – but his budget is rather tight at the moment). Mak is thinking of maybe just having it at a community hall somewhere – a really “sederhana tetapi meriah” kind of reception, and I definitely agreed with her.

The truth is, I don’t want Sarah to regret not having her real big day like one of my aunts who missed it. Chik got married a month after Teh, and a couple of months before Ayah Lang. Because my late Tok Ayah could not afford having two kenduri in two months, Chik was married off in a simple nikah ceremony first, and shared a two-in-one kenduri together with Ayah Lang a few months later. As it happened, on her husband’s side, the kenduri sambut menantu was also postponed a few months so that they could have a two-in-one kenduri with her husband’s brother. Yes, they are still happily married after 16 years, blessed with 6 kids, but somehow I felt like Chik was cheated of having her own big day…

Anyway, I hope everything will work out well, somehow, someway…

Sunday, February 18, 2007

Yuki Yuki Yuki

The decision to visit Minamiuonuma Yuki Matsuri (Snow Festival) was rather hasty. Hubby found out about it in a “Yokoso Japan!” booklet he picked up at a guesthouse in Asakusa and voiced out his desire to visit it. He had been talking about wanting to visit Sapporo Yuki Matsuri but we both knew that was quite out of our league since traveling to and staying in Sapporo could gravely burn our pocket.

He persuaded me to try asking Kak Eda in Urasa to see if we could get to stay one night at her place over the weekend. It was a long weekend after all since the following Monday was a public holiday. Kak Eda used to teach in my former college, although not quite exactly my own lecturer since she taught Accounting and I was a Law student. But we have been keeping tab on each other since she discovered my blog (and I became her blog reader too), and was kind enough to visit our house when she stayed in Tokyo (while her husband was undergoing an internship in Roppongi) last summer. Since it was already late, I just sent her a c-mail.

She called back on Friday afternoon, as I was on the bus, going for my 30-weeks maternity check-up. She said okay - that her family had no travelling plan over the weekend, no plan of receiving other guests and it wouldn’t be a bother at all to have us at their place. I asked her if she knew any single Malay male around who wouldn’t mind offering a place to stay for another Malay guy (Kamarol) who was also interested in going, but she said unfortunately, the only single Malay guy in IUJ is staying in the dormitory and no outside guests are allowed to spend a night there. I then asked her for more favour – to provide the telephone numbers of hotels in Urasa so that I could pass it over to Kamarol. We already tried searching for it in the Internet – but to not much success. Kamarol said he wouldn’t mind paying a little bit for accommodation since it would be his last chance of visiting a Yuki Matsuri before graduating in March and return to Malaysia.

He changed his mind though – which left me and hubby (plus Huzaifah) on our own. Saturday morning saw us walking to Asakusa eki at around 7.30 a.m, so that we could catch the 8.39 Urban Takasaki Line train at Ueno. The train was packed – probably due to the long weekend, as we saw lots of school kids and teenagers bringing camping equipments with them. We decided to take the normal train rather than the shinkansen because the ticket was cheaper by half, although more-than-twice lengthy in term of time. (1 ½ hour by shinkansen, which cost about 8,000 yen, 4 hours by normal train with 3 transfers and cost a little less than 4,000 yen). We had to time our departure carefully to lessen the waiting period (during transfers) and to ensure we boarded the rapid instead of local trains wherever possible.

The sights as we travelled outside Tokyo were rather marvellous – blue skies, clear streams and rivers flowing so peacefully, majestic mountains, wide open space with large houses and playgrounds…

Reached Urasa eki around 1.00 p.m. and met Abang Bad, Kak Eda’s hubby for the first time. Had lunch at Kak Eda’s place - she prepared pulut with ikan masin (yummy) and fried chicken, while I brought some left-over nasi Pakistan & ayam masak merah from the previous day. Rested and prayed before we left for Muikamachi, where the Yuki Matsuri was held.

Not much snow this year – so even before we entered the Yuki Matsuri area, Kak Eda could tell that it wouldn’t be as grand as it was last year, when they had a majestic ice sculpture of a castle with a grand made-from-ice stage. There were a lot more ice sculptures in various forms, lighted up with candles, that could be seen along the main road last year too. But then, since there’s no snow in Tokyo so far – and there might be no snow at all this year in Tokyo – hubby and I tried to make the best of what we could.

Along with Kak Eda’s kids, hubby and Huzaifah tried ice sliding as soon as we entered the Yuki Matsuri area. Huzaifah was not wearing waterproof pants nor waterproof boots (luckily I managed to borrow one pair that suited me nicely, a peninggalan by a former Malaysian who used to stay in Urasa before Kak Eda) – yet he insisted on walking in the snow although I would rather had him in his baby car. Nevertheless I was glad to note that he really enjoyed the snow. While snow is nothing new to me – I was pretty jakun to enter a kamakura (igloo) for the first time ever. The kamakuras were not as white as they were last year, and a few were actually melting as we entered them – but still, it was kind of cool to experience entering one.

There were many stalls offering free sake, amazake (sweet sake) and what nots for visitors to enjoy in the kamakura. We were approached a few times by ojiisan from different stalls, inviting us to try the sake – but I told them that we could not drink sake. “Sore wa zannen deshita ne” (A pity, isn’t it), one of the ojiisan exclaimed as he finally realized that we were not going to accept his insistent offer, but I smiled anyway and moved along. I guess we got that remark pretty often – most Japanese could not imagine life without alcohol and thus find it very difficult to comprehend Muslims who abstain from drinking.

Met some Indonesians at the stall area, not far from the main stage. Chit chatted a bit, took some group photos and then explored the stalls. Typical matsuri stalls – where they sold all kind of food from yaki soba (mee goreng), yaki zakana (ikan bakar), kare-raisu (nasi kari?) to potato fries, crepes and waffles. Then there were also some stalls selling souvenirs and some ‘kedai tikam’. Yes, this is a nation filled with people who really enjoy gambling – from having temporary ‘kedai tikam’ for young kids at matsuri to having pachinko parlors and lottery booths everywhere.

We left the yuki matsuri area around Maghrib. Abang Bad then took us to a fashion mall nearby – with only three outlets, one of it being Birthday, a store selling kids and babies stuff. Hubby looked after Huzaifah and Kak Eda’s kids while their parents went to pray and I started a shopping spree. I mean, there were plenty of stuff on sale – for Huzaifah and his adik. Fortunately, the shop was closed at 7.00 p.m., so I managed to curb myself from excessive spending (not to mention adding a lot of weight to our luggage)

Abang Bad took us for a short tour around IUJ campus before heading back to their house. According to him, many students found that completing their course there (it’s a graduate-courses-only university) to be rather tough, so much so that currently there are no JPA scholars (read: PTD officers on study leave) studying there.

Maybe the fact that Urasa is pretty rural too contributes to the absence of JPA scholars here. But I must say that after being so used to the crowdedness of Tokyo, it was refreshing to enjoy wide open space and peace in Urasa. Kak Eda told us that most of the population in Urasa are rice growers, and rice from Niigata area (including Urasa) is well-known for its unsurpassed quality. I guess all the fresh air from the surrounding mountains must be one of the contributing factors.

We were greeted with snowfall first thing the following morning. It never fails to amaze me how serene it always seem when snow falls. It was still grey, not quite sunny, yet there’s something magical as we witnessed the earth being enveloped by whiteness. Huzaifah seemed to be in awe when he first saw snow coming from the above – nothing surprising since I was pretty much a jakun myself when I first experienced snowfall about a decade ago.

It was rather mortifying, but Huzaifah decided to leave a small ‘souvenir’ in the room where we stayed by leaking while his father was changing his diaper. Normally we change his diaper on a mat – and hubby actually was using his blanket at that time, but Huzaifah was moving around so much and then all of a sudden just started spraying… I was getting ready to pray and for a while was rather taken aback by the event as I distraughtly told Kak Eda what happened. (She actually cleaned up the stain while I prayed – and looking back, I should have done that myself, but at that time, I guess I was just not thinking straight.) Not to mention that Kak Eda’s kids have to rearrange their stuff all over again because Huzaifah kept ‘rearranging’ stuff in the room (so much so that hubby had to turn the book shelves to face the wall to disable Huzaifah from keeping ‘mengemas’)

Anyway, we finally left the house after Zohor and went to a ski/sled/snowboard area about 5-minutes drive away. While everybody else enjoyed sledding, I decided to kill the time by making a yuki daruma (snowman). Due to the not-so-fine snow and the fact that I was working on it mostly by myself, I only managed to make a small one – with help from everybody for the finishing touches – Kak Eda put her self-knitted muffler around the yuki daruma’s neck, her daughter and son looked for suitable sticks for the yuki daruma’s nose and hands, her son carved the eyes and lent his gloves and her daughter finally put the sledding board as the yuki daruma’s hat.

Hubby took some photos at the ski area while the rest of us took a breather and warmed ourselves at the rest area. Huzaifah even managed to wheedle some crisps (luckily, edible ones) from some Japanese strangers when I was not looking after he was done with coaxing some pieces from Kak Eda’s kids. So, I guess it was just the perfect time to go and do some snack shopping at a supa before leaving Urasa.

By the time we were done with snack shopping and reached Urasa eki, there was still plenty of time to kill. So we had soba together since Kak Eda’s son apparently associates a trip to the eki with having soba at a stall there. The kake soba was nice – but yes, just like Abang Bad said, chances are we wouldn’t even dream of ordering such plain noodle in Malaysia where we’re spoilt for choices.

We boarded the 4.12 p.m. train from Urasa – bidding our final goodbye to Kak Eda’s family less than 10 minutes prior to our departure time. As Huzaifah started to nap, I continued reading “Girls’ Night In” – a compilation of short stories by chick-lit writers (I know, I know – I’m feasting on chick-lits like nobody’s business. Not to mention that I have also finished reading Sophie Kinsella’s “Can You Keep a Secret?” and “The Undomestic Goddess” right after I submitted my last final paper due for Fall term). More than 4 hours later, we reached Ueno eki, where we (stopped to use the restroom and) strolled around the station area a bit before taking a train to Minamisenju. We took a taxi home – the first taxi trip for Huzaifah in Japan – because by then both hubby and I were not too keen on taking the approximately 20-minutes walk, what with the heavy backpack and the chilly night.

It was a good trip – the snow might be less than last year, the yuki matsuri a scale down too, but being at the receiving end of Kak Eda’s family’s warm hospitality more than made up for any setback, so there…

Monday, February 12, 2007

Twenty yet as sinless as a baby

"Will my parents go to paradise? They are good people, you know. They deserve rewards for their good deeds, right?”

How does one answer that question posed by someone who is interested in becoming a Muslim but has a lot of worries and concerns about this and that?

I gave her rather an awkward smile and muttered something along the line of “Hmm… maybe you can learn more about that later…”

Paradise and hell is not an easy matter to be discussed. I mean, while there’s an ayat or hadith saying that whoever seeks a religion other than Islam will be one of the losers in the Hereafter, there’s also the belief in Allah being the AlMighty who finally decides who goes where. And who’s to say that the girl’s parents will not go to paradise – who knows if they decide to embrace Islam in the future, and be better than born-Muslims?

The girl has been learning about Islam on her own, mostly from books and reading materials published by Japan Islamic Center. Being a student at International Christian University and with a background of Shinto family, it wasn’t until she met a Kuwaiti guy during a short-term English course in York last summer when she started to have an interest in Islam.

The Kuwaiti guy introduced some basic principles in Islam, and she found out more on her own as soon as she returned to Japan, just as she had promised him. I was not quite sure why she picked Asakusa mosque to convert though, since her house in Nishi Kasai is nearer to Gyotoku and her university in Mitaka is closer to Otsuka. I thanked Allah anyway, for giving me the opportunity to know her and witnessed her conversion.

Twenty is the coming-of-age in Japan. It’s such a big deal that Japan even has a public holiday to celebrate people turning twenty (the second Monday of January). She chose to embrace Islam a day before her twentieth birthday. Where others might celebrate their twentieth birthday by legally drinking alcohol or smoking cigarettes, she decided to celebrate hers by refraining from alcohol and all haram substances for good.

The first time she visited the mosque was more for a chit-chat – a counselling of some sort – to discuss her concerns and worries. She is still staying with her parents after all, and becoming a Muslim means she has to make a lot of adjustments – such as not eating pork and other haram substances. She was especially worried about telling her parents because she knew her father does not look favourably at Muslims (they always show Muslims as terrorists on the TV) and her mother would be devastated because her only daughter might not be marrying a respectable Japanese guy with decent family background after all. She believed that her elder brother would be more accepting though, because he is quite open-minded when it comes down to making personal choices in life.

“I was planning on telling my parents that I’m going on a diet, thus I cannot eat any kind of meat,” she confessed. I told her that if she’s not ready, it’s not compulsory to tell her parents about her conversion. And if it’s easier (and makes sense too) to tell them that she’s on a diet to avoid them asking questions about her not consuming meat, then why not. After all, it’s true that she would be going through a new diet – the Muslim diet.

She asked about praying, fasting, wearing scarf and if I ever got bad treatment from others for being a Muslim… She shared her doubts about becoming a practising Muslim since she thinks it would be difficult to pray at her university and she doesn’t want to draw too much attention by wearing scarf, especially since she’s attending a Christian university.

I told her not to worry too much about these things, since they might hinder her from embracing Islam, where else first and foremost what is more important is for her to proclaim her faith in Allah as the One True God and Rasulullah as His last messenger. “Don’t worry too much, once you become a Muslim, Allah will guide you. Besides, you still have a lot to learn, and insya Allah I will introduce you to some other Japanese muslimah, since they might be able to offer more advice and guidance.”

There are times I felt not quite adept and incompetent as the imam’s wife – and that was one of the moments. It’s different because I was a born Muslim, with a rather religious family background. While I can imagine, I have no real experience of being anxious to become a Muslim. I have no anxieties about facing parents’ objections in order to become a Muslim. I have no worries about praying, fasting and wearing scarf in public because I had been trained to do so since I was still a child. Thus I have a lot of respect for people who become Muslim by choice, and even higher for those who become practising Muslim within a short period of time – because I realize that it must not have been easy for them…

She returned to the Mosque one Sunday morning, as she promised, this time carrying two copies of passport-sized photos and her Insurance card as proof of identification. She brought along the navy blue scarf I gave her as a present when she first came and asked me to help her put it on just before she proclaimed the shahadah. She happily told me that she had confessed to her parents about her wanting to convert the day before and alhamdulillah they had accepted the news well. Throughout the process of shahadah and her first briefing on Rukun Iman and Rukun Islam, she paid close attention to what hubby said (and I interpreted) looking oh-so-serious about learning , but more importantly she looked serene, far different from the distraught-looking girl she first appeared a few days before.

After listening to some suggestions from hubby and Rusdi (who acted as one of the witnesses), she chose Sofea as her Muslim name. It means pure or beautiful and it matches her Japanese name - Sofea Haruka. She stayed on even after lunch (I cooked mee bandung) to perform wuduk (ablution) and solat. It wasn’t until after Asar when we said goodbye, and I was glad to note that she kept her scarf on even after she left the mosque.

As I watched her walking to the bus stop, I could not help thinking – what better way to celebrate coming-of-age than to start anew as sinless as a baby…

Wednesday, January 31, 2007

A day in Yokohama

I’ve been itching to blog about this for quite some time…

However, there was a paper on International Politics that I had to submit last week.
Then, there were two papers on Globalization of Culture and Asia that I had to submit last Tuesday.
One more paper to go – due to be submitted by next Tuesday, so I’ve decided to take a short break now and blog a little bit (mind you, I have taken breaks in between the three papers – finishing Sophie Kinsella’s “Shopaholic and Sister” and Iris Johansen’s “The Ugly Duckling” – resulting in me finishing my papers at the very last minute… I know, I have a bad sense of priority…blergh...)

I had a two-week break in late December until early January. Told hubby that it would be a great time to do some travelling since I was feeling rather fit and we still only had to take care of one baby… So, we considered some options – including going to Niigata, or Hiroshima, or Kyoto/Osaka using JR’s seishun 18 kippu (dirt cheap train tickets to be used during certain periods of the year). As it happened – hubby was not quite free during these two weeks though. First, he had to prepare to be the Imam for Solat Eidul Adha in the Malaysian Embassy. Then, he was invited to be a guest speaker at a Seminar Keluarga Muslim organized by AMIR a few days after that. Not to mention that the mosque was visited by people from various groups for various programs during the two weeks. And on the last Sunday before school re-opened, there was that wedding I mentioned earlier, between Mariam-san and Jehan-san.

I think it was partly because he felt guilty for not taking me anywhere and partly because he too wanted to discover some new place, hubby suggested going to Yokohama on Monday, the last day before school re-opened. I was not keen on the idea because I had to go to school the next day and we often return home late whenever we go out for such excursion. Hubby persisted, did all the homework on Yokohama (finding the fares, the interesting places to visit etc on the Net) that in the end I just didn’t have the heart to say no.

So, that Monday morning, I woke up earlier to prepare breakfast and lunch (nasi goreng), got Huzaifah ready and off we went. Unfortunately, I realized that I had left my wallet at home as we were about to enter the train station. Alhamdulillah hubby carried some cash with him too, so we decided to just go ahead without having to go back and pick up my wallet at home. Yup we travelled all the way to Yokohama without me carrying any ID or ATM cards (it’s important for gaijin to carry our IDs with us all the time because there’s no telling when we would be asked to produce our alien card by some patrolling policeman who has nothing better to do). Tawakaltu a’lallah ajelah…

Since I did not do any reading on Yokohama (like I did with Hakone), I decided to let hubby led the way. But he didn’t seem to be all that well-versed like I hoped, so in the end, I had to do lots of the “navigation” while we were there.

Anyway, we both decided that Yokohama is much prettier than Tokyo – cleaner, more organized (no messy electrical/communication wires overhead and we did not see any ‘under construction’ signs on the road during the day) and the people are a bit friendlier. We took a 45 minute ride on the Sea Bass (perhaps to differentiate it from the Tokyo Sea Bus) from Yokohoma Bay Quarter to Yamashita Koen, stopping by Minato Mirai and Aka Renga.

Huzaifah obviously enjoyed the ferry ride, running back to front numerously – which got me worried but his father said to just monitor him, and not stop him from enjoying himself, so long as he did not disturb others. Alhamdulillah we didn’t get any dirty look from other passengers and the ferry itself was not filled to the max, so Huzaifah had plenty of room to run about, sometimes with people mumbling “kawaii” as he passed them…

Yamashita Koen was another place where Huzaifah had a great time running here and there. He’s getting pretty fast now, so it wasn’t easy to keep up with him, what with the extra weight that I carried and all... I worried about him running into a cyclist, or a bigger kid, or a dog… but alhamdulillah none of that happened. I guess sometimes a mother just can’t help worrying a tad too much…

We took photos of the recently closed-to-public Hikawa Maru and Marine Tower. Once called the "Queen of the Pacific", Hikawa Maru used to be a luxury cargo-passenger ship, operating between 1930-1960, connecting Japan with Seattle and Vancouver. Due to a decrease in visitors, it was closed to public beginning 25th December 2006. Marine Tower, the largest on-land lighthouse in the world, another famous landmark of Yokohama, was also closed on the same day, due to similar factor. The Yokohama City Office had taken over the management of Marine Tower and it is expected to be re-opened in 2009. Although there is a plan for Hikawa Maru to be re-opened too, the date is yet unknown.


Then we walked to Chukagai, the biggest China Town in Japan. Since it happened to be a public holiday, the place was so crowded that I asked hubby to go ahead and take photos on his own while Huzaifah and I waited at one of the four entrance gates. From what I could see, the place was lined with mostly Chinese restaurants and Chinese snack stalls – mostly selling pork-filled dumplings. So, I guess I didn’t miss much by not exploring it thoroughly.


Next, we took a train to Minato Mirai – the central attraction of the new, modern Yokohama. Minato Mirai is, among others, home of Landmark Tower (tallest building in Japan), the yacht-shaped Intercontinental hotel, the Queen's Square shopping mall and the Cosmo World amusement park.

We walked along Queen’s Square, bought some drinks and buns at a konbini there and then strolled to the neighboring Cosmo World. There is no entrance fee for Cosmo World, and although I would have loved a roller coaster ride or two, my condition did not permit me to do so. Thus we ended up taking just one ride – on Cosmo Clock 21, which stands at 115m, and reputed to be one of the tallest ferris wheels in the world. Even then, hubby insisted on waiting until nightfall before taking the ride, “baru pemandangan cantik sikit,” or so he claimed. Alhamdulillah the queue was not that long when we boarded the gondola, but 15 minutes later as we exited it, the line had grown considerably long – made up by mostly teenagers and couples in early twenties.


Huzaifah yet again had a wonderful time during the ferris wheel ride, jumping excitedly as he took in the wonderful sights – of not only Yokohama city, but the sea as well as sun setting behind Mount Fuji. I later told Mak how excited he was, showing no sign of fear of height in the gondola, and Mak’s response was maybe we should consider training him as a jet fighter pilot one day as it is difficult to find Muslims who are trained to be high-precision pilot and all. (Oh well, sometimes I think Mak watches too much Discovery/National Geographic channel…)

We bought a souvenir photo of our family taken just before we boarded the ferris wheel. As it costed 800 yen, hubby was a bit reluctant to buy it, but I insisted on it anyway because we bought no other souvenir to mark our first trip to Yokohama (we intend to have a repeat trip – maybe to Hakkeijima Sea Paradise,Minato Mieru Oka Koen, Aka Renga and Motomachi/Yamate).

Then we walked to Sakuragicho eki to take the subway to go to Azamino, to visit a newfound acquaintance’s place. More click-clicking of camera as there were some interesting places along the way. I let hubby did most of the snapping as I pushed Huzaifah's baby car towards the Queen's Mall indoor passageway to avoid the cold wind. Saw a Cold Stone Creamery outlet in Landmark Tower buidling, and thought it would be a better place to have ice cream than the store in Roppongi because it was warmer inside the building.

It took us about 30 minutes to reach Azamino on the subway, but when we arrived there Soffian, who had so kindly invited us for dinner at his house, was already waiting for us with his son. We had never met before - in fact hubby just learned about Soffian from one of his Indonesian neighbors who attended one of the programs held during winter break in the mosque – but apparently Soffian had already known hubby since he attended the Solat Eidul Adha in the embassy. He made a remark somewhere along the line that the recent khutbah was rather refreshing and relevant to the audience – and I was glad to hear that, to know that at least someone actually paid attention…

It was easy to hit it off with Farah, his bubbly wife. She looked so familiar that I thought we might have met before, but she said she got similar remarks a lot, but no, she didn’t think we have ever met before. I learned a thing or two about maternity care in Japan from her and was rather impressed with the way she communicated with her two kids. Abang, her 5-year-old first born, is fluent in Nihongo but not BM, so he spoke more to me than hubby. His knowledge on trains in Japan was so impressive, that I thought if there’s such a thing as an episode of Kid TV Champion on trains, he might be a strong contender. He collects lots and lots of train models, and even the calendar under the transparent dining table cover featured different trains in Japan.

We finally said goodbye at around 9.00 p.m., inviting Soffian’s family to visit us in Asakusa. Farah said that her parents might be visiting them later and if they go to Asakusa, maybe they can visit us in the mosque.

Soffian sent us to take the Den-en-toshi line train from Tama Plaza, and we changed to Ginza line at Omotesando with little difficulty (because Den-en-toshi/Hanzomon line and Ginza line shared the same platform at Omotesando eki). We reached home around 11.00 p.m., exhausted yet glad that finally we got to travel someplace other than Tokyo during my school break…

Monday, January 22, 2007

(A small) Theft in Tokyo

I could not believe my eyes.

I just left my bike for less than 5 minutes and the two plastic bags I left in the front basket were gone.

Vanished.

Well, I just did some grocery shopping, left the bags in my bike’s basket and went to the store next to the supermarket to get a few more stuff. It did not took me longer than 5 minutes to grab a carton of milk, some yogurt and a tray of egg and paid for them because the shop was not busy.

So, imagine my surprise when I saw the empty basket.

Hubby was holding Huzaifah as he witnessed me arranging the two bags in my basket. I told him I wouldn’t be long as I rushed to get some stuff from the store next door, but he chose to follow me into the shop. I don’t blame him – we never thought somebody would take our stuff just like that. This is Japan after all, where the people are supposed to be decent, trustworthy, honourable… I mean, they were just two bags of groceries, not like we were back from shopping in Takashimaya, Matsuzakaya or Mitsukoshi…

I’ve done multiple-place-grocery shopping before – in Tokyo and in Gyotoku - leaving plastic bags in my bike’s basket for a short while as I entered other shops to get some stuff, but they had never disappeared just like that. And this is different from the lost-wallet-episode I had last year because last time I had dropped the wallet somewhere and it might or might not be found by anyone. But this – this was blatant theft! In broad daylight too.

Hubby tried to look around for the bags, but nobody appeared to be carrying our stuff. It wasn’t that much – carrots, cabbage, shiitake mushroom, shimeji mushroom, cooking oil and some ice cream. The total cost was a little over 1000 yen – not much, I know, but still… When hubby suggested me to go inside and buy more to replace what had been stolen, I was still so upset with the incident that I just refused to do so. We ended doing our alternative shopping elsewhere, buying different items (except for ice cream – I had a craving for it) because it just hurt to buy similar stuff at higher price when I knew I had a bargain at the first supermarket. When we reached home, I confessed to hubby that if I were in a more rational state, I would’ve gone and just buy stuff to replace what was lost at the supermarket – but when I was there, the frustration was still too raw…

When we told him what happened, Ridzuan, who used to live in Japan for quite some time, admitted that “memang ramai orang buat kerja tu… orang tua-tua pun buat…” Yup, as it happened, that particular supermarket was filled with mostly senior citizens when we were there as it was still midday (the yuppies were not back from work yet to do their shopping. That’s why there are plenty of 24 hours supermarket/food store in Tokyo – to accommodate yuppies and their grave hours)

Well, so there, a lesson for us never to be too laid-back or too trusting (or careless) again – even when dealing with the so-called honest Japanese…

Saturday, January 20, 2007

We hope it's going to be a girl...

People have been telling me over and over again that no two pregnancies are the same, and I can’t agree more. In my case – the first and second pregnancies are a lot different, so much so that I hope the gender will be different too this time…

Alhamdulillah, the vomiting stopped after the 4th month – a big change from last time because with Huzaifah, I was vomiting almost throughout the whole 9 months, including the morning I delivered him. I don’t get tired that easily too now, which is good, because I do need my energy to keep up with Huzaifah.


However, now I am experiencing other previously-not-experienced pregnancy related pains - leg cramps (which could really hurt, especially in the middle of a winter night on a futon) and constipation. Tried stretching before bed and taking more calcium (drinking more milk, eating more yogurt) to overcome the cramp thingy – but doesn’t seem to work all that well. I drink plenty of water regularly, and eat prunes to overcome the constipation problem - again, with not much difference. Currently I am consuming lots of green tea, just to see if it will make any difference…

I also sometimes feel guilty – to Huzaifah because he’s getting an adik even before his second birthday, and to the adik, because I am not taking the same care with this pregnancy like I did with the first. With Huzaifah, I used to read more Quran (now I just listen to Quran recital on the PC occasionally), drank plenty of soya milk and bird’s nest (not much soya and no bird's nest this time around, in fact I even drink kopi kampung sometimes - not good, not good), took my prenatal vitamin religiously (stopped taking folic acid after 4th month this time) and communicated daily with him (now I only ask adik to stop moving around so much when I am trying to get some sleep). And apart from some bodysuits on sale in Gap, I haven’t bought anything new for the adik. I am counting on Mak to bring Huzaifah’s old stuff from home when she comes here in March, but Mak also have asked me to buy some new stuff. Baby stuff are not cheap – even more so in Japan where nothing is cheap.

Now that I have to take care of Huzaifah, with his never ending unexpected stunts (the oven is sealed because he kept climbing the oven to get to pans and pots on the stove, the chairs are located not at the dining table because he kept climbing the table using the chair as a ladder of some sort, a lot of dinner wares had been transferred to the mosque’s kitchen since he kept rummaging through the lower cabinets and took out glass wares to play with them), I feel like I am a bit emotionally distant from this pregnancy. Hubby too, seems to take less interest in this pregnancy – probably because he too is drained with taking care of Huzaifah.

Not that I love this yet unborn adik any less. It’s just – different. But I hope it’s going to be a girl. And if the old wives’ tales are to be believed – there are plenty of signs that it’s going to be a girl…

The signs?

I am carrying high – it’s still unnoticed to some although I will be entering my seventh month next week.

Hubby is not gaining weight along with me.

I am craving sweets – not just ice cream and cheesecake, but also chocolate, and I am normally not a chocolate person (more an ‘asam’ person actually)

I crave for fruits too – persimmons, strawberries, pears

I don’t get headaches

My nose doesn’t change its shape

My chest development is pretty dramatic

My belly resembles a watermelon more than a basketball

Plus, Huzaifah loves playing in the kitchen and with kitchen wares. He is happiest when he’s allowed to play with ladles although he has a trunk full of toys suitable for his age. Sabah confessed that his mom told him that he used to love playing in the kitchen and with kitchen utensils when he was a toddler – and he got a baby sister…

Not to mention just a few days ago, I craved to read chick lit. Maybe I was influenced by Kit, maybe it was the “50% off chick lit” signboard that was put outside my favorite used bookstore, or maybe it was just my raging hormones – I bought not one, but three Shopaholic books in one go (for less than 1000 yen). I have heard about the Shopaholic series 2 or 3 years ago from Afaf, a colleague at work, but never tried buying, borrowing or reading it until now. And being more of a Sheldon/Koontz/Grisham/Archer/Dan Brown reader – yes, chick lit is not my usual cup of tea… So, what else but girly hormones that would drive me to buy chick lit, huh?

Oh, by the by, another reason why hubby and I hope for a girl is that so we can put all those dresses, girly bodysuits, tops, pants, shoes, socks and what-nots bought in 2005 (when we thought our first born was going to be a girl) to good use…

Happy Maal Hijrah, Congratulations and Condolence

Why when you know you should be concentrating on writing at least one of the four term papers that are due, you just have this voice at the back of your mind nagging you to update your blog. It’s not like you update your blog regularly after all, but the voice just wouldn’t stop – so there…

Happy Maal Hijrah 1428. Hope this year is going to be a good one. I don’t have any new year resolutions – I think the last time I made up some was when I was in high school. I guess I’m one of those who make up new resolutions when we feel like we could commit to it, regardless of the beginning period.

Hubby led the recital of doa akhir/awal tahun in Rusdi’s place in Ichikawa Ono yesterday with a small potluck feast after Isyak. (I didn’t bring anything, and was quite embarrassed to note that even 9-month pregnant Kak Mai, Pokcik’s wife who is due to deliver anytime now, contributed some pudding.) I especially enjoyed the pulut prepared by Nor, Syah’s wife with the spicy sambal, the apam (with anonymous contributor) and the mee goreng prepared by Siti, the hostess. We seldom get to go to Hijriah new year party in Malaysia because most people read the doa akhir/awal tahun privately at home or at the mosque – so I kinda enjoyed the opportunity to attend one such party here, even though I was the only female guest (it was an all-male small kenduri actually, but hubby took Huzaifah and I along just so that I could recite the doa together with him)

Oh, by the way, I would like to offer my belated congratulations to newlywed Roza & Meor - and thanks Ahkak for sharing the wedding photos at your blog. I am sure, what with Meor being a photographer himself, they must have loads of gorgeous wedding photos, but even normal photos were enough to prove how radiant Roza looked on her big day. I am happy for her – I will always be indebted to her for being the one who helped telling someone (rather nicely) to stop bugging me a few years back. Roza, Ahkak and Ira were also the one who acted as my make-up artists on my wedding, and I could never thank them enough for being there for me…

I take this opportunity to also congratulate Jehan and Mariam-san – (the fifth actually, but) the first couple to be wedded by hubby this year in Asakusa. The bride shed a few tears when she uttered the shahadah. They didn’t bring any witnesses along, but alhamdulillah the mosque at that particular time was used by a group of Indonesians for some religious meet, so 4 kind guys had agreed to act as the witnesses – 2 for Mariam-san’s shahadah ceremony, and another 2 for the wedding.

On a more sober note, my condolences go out to Shireen – the same one I’ve mentioned in two recent entries - who had just lost her dear dad 2 days before Eidul Adha. I didn’t know about it until a few days ago when she replied my e-mail, thanking me for sending her (long due) photos taken in Tokyo. I remember thinking what a nice daughter she is as I accompanied her buying souvenirs for her parents – a lovely ‘beg surau’ for her mother and a cool jacket from UniQlo for her father. I am not sure whether or not her dad had a chance to wear the jacket, because Shireen even missed Roza’s wedding because of her father’s critical condition (due to cancer). Poor girl is still trying to cope with the loss, missing her daddy so much… My prayers are with her and her family – and Al-fatihah for her dad…

Wednesday, January 17, 2007

This one is for you Kakaq

Dear Kakaq,

You asked for some photos, so, here they are...


This was taken during Eidul Adha in the TYT Dato' Duta's residence as he was introduced to hubby by your 'Abang Jas'.


This shot of Sabah - who helped a lot with taking care of Huzaifah last Eidul Adha - was taken in Encik Jasri's residence, with Encik Jasri at the back, offering hubby (the photographer) more mee kari...

Oh, this was the Raya family shot that came out okay last Eidul Adha, taken in the Malaysian Embassy


A six-month pregnant mommy feeding a 1-year-and-4-months old toddler home-made nasi goreng in Yamashita Park, Yokohama

Another recent shot (taken on 8th January 2007) of that six-month pregnant mommy with her eldest son in Yamashita Park.

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